About Me

So you would like to find out a little about me.

I am the founder of chummies.  I am a chummy myself and began this blog to I guess release the chatter that was circulating my brain and get it out in the open.  Surely I'm not the only person (as well as my husband) that falls into this void of in between?.  And seriously is being childless the "gay" of the 21st century. 

Our story is that we do intend or hope to have children (or child ;) however not at this point in time.  So this chummy could be a mummy.  If god forbid my useby date isn't up as society already deems my best before is well overdue as I am .. dare I say it ... in my 30's ..gasp!!

To be honest the years have flown.  I have been too busy working out who I want to be, what I want to be and where I want to be. Before I knew it there were 30 candles on my birthday cake and I'm wondering where time has gone and why we seem to be so far behind the 8 ball.

But are we behind the 8 ball??  You see I have never had the aims in life to get engaged, get married, buy a house and have babies.  I have always let life pan out the way it pans out. Whatever will be will be.

I have never been maternal, never thought every baby in the world was cute, never played babies with my toys when I was little; I played teachers, never grew up looking after children or babies and never babysat babies.  The last, and probably one of the very few nappies I've changed I put on backwards. It has only really been within the last few years that I have felt maternal at all and now; I soooo look forward to seeing my niece and friends children.  But for now I can hand them back and for now that is where we are. 

We have pure selfish sex, enjoy our own selfish time, have selfish sleep ins, and enjoy our own selfish life.  My husband and I have been together for many years and married for two and the last few years we have been enjoying being a married as husband and wife.